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Calvin Klein is notorious for distributing advertisements that sexualize women, portraying them as passive objects. In this particular advertisement the woman is laying back with her eyes closed, letting the male figure manipulate her body in any way he desires. The man stares down at the woman with purpose, focus and intent while the woman appears unaware. One of the woman’s hands is resting delicately on her breast in contrast the man’s hands appear in control like they have purpose and intent. He touches her while she only touches herself. She does not appear to have any physical control. She is an object of desire for the man in the photo and the outside viewers of the photo. We know exactly what the man wants signified by his gaze, position and gesture, yet we have no idea what the woman wants. Are her eyes closed because she is lost in passion? Or are her eyes closed because she is scared and does not want to be where she is? The point is, no one cares what she wants.
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This photo depicts a child model shown as a grown woman, which I believe is the most disturbing technique used in the advertising world. The young girl is dressed like an older woman wearing heals that appear to be at least three sized to big. She is staring at the viewer and the photographer, completely aware that she is being watched. She is the object of male desire. Her hand rests delicately beneath her face and she is laying in a pose that is historically deemed as sexual and passive. In advertising it is common to see grown women appear as children, through their clothing, positioning and gestures (putting their fingers in their mouth). Overtime instead of simply showing grown women as young girls, designers began showing young girls as grown women. This is not a mistake on any ones part. As we have learned, everything in advertising is used to appeal to some ones fantasy. These are not new and innovative ideas. The most frightening reality is that these techniques have been proven to work and that there is a wide audience to whom this picture appeals.
3. My worst memory of women in pop culture
My worst memory of women in pop culture occurred during my freshman year of high school. I was attending a boarding school that appeared to be riddled with eating disorders. Phrases like “size 2 is the new 6” became widespread and competition between all the young women seemed inevitable. I walked into a friend’s room and sat on her bed. When I looked up I saw a cut out from a magazine that said “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” placed alongside the forever-skinny Kate Moss. The now famous quote was completely new to me at the time. It was the first time in my life where I became incredibly sensitive about my own weight and incredibly aware of the weight of others. All of my favorite teen soap operas at the time (The OC, One Tree Hill, etc.) casted actress that were so thin they appeared to be advertising anorexia. It was as if overnight something that used to mean nothing suddenly meant everything. The lead actress in The OC was a passive and damaged young woman who was constantly waiting for the right man to save her. She battled alcoholism, which the show NEVER actually touched on, she just always seemed to be rid of her disease when she found the right boyfriend. The only “powerful” woman depicted on the show was a “gold digging,” plastic surgery loving housewife. She was only powerful because she used sex and beauty to win men over. She married men for their money so she could become powerful. There was nothing innately “powerful” about her, unless it was at the expense of a man. I was duped by these advertisements and TV shows into thinking that being thin was not only preferred, it was necessary.
4. My favorite pop culture moment
Three years ago I was sitting in a sociology class when the teacher came in and told us we were going to watch an advertisement by Dove Beauty. The professor played the (now famous) Dove Campaign for Beauty advertisement, which depicts a woman being completely transformed by make-up and digital imagery. The before and after picture looked like two completely different women. I had heard forever that the women shown in advertisements “did not actually look like that” but a huge part of me still believed them to be real. When I saw this advertisement I remember feeling a great sense of relief. I showed it to ALL of my friends when I got home from class and their reactions were very similar to mine. Two months later I watched it in my feminist studies class and everyone had the same reaction, even the men. Slowly it became one of the most popular media campaigns of the year. Dove advertisements continue to portray “real” looking women, which I will forever appreciate. It was the most welcomed reality check I have ever gotten.
5. The Beauty Myth
The beauty myth begins with the pervasive beauty ideals placed on women through media, more specifically that these ideals are attainable, evolutionary and biological. In reality none of these things are true. The beauty myth convinces women that there is a “universal” code of beauty that all must follow, that the ideal sense of beauty has always been there and that this “beauty” is attainable. Women continue to spend millions of dollars on diets and make-up that ensure they will attain perfection. In actuality, women are participating in a life long marathon with no ending. I absolutely agree with Naomi Wolf’s general argument. The idea of beauty is constantly changing. In order to realize this simply compare the women of the 50’s to the women of today. Back then the most famous women were curvy and voluptuous, something admired by all. By our current societal standards those women would now be considered fat. In addition, Wolf argues that beauty is not universal it is culturally defined. Wolf states that in some cultures men are the one’s adorned with makeup and men participate in beauty pageants. I have been fortunate enough to travel to many places in the world. From these experiences I have seen first hand that beauty is NOT universal. I also find it incredibly convincing that there are directs ties between a woman’s ability to rise in the power structure and the pervasive nature of the beauty myth. Wolf states “During the past decade, women breached the power structure; meanwhile, eating disorders rose exponentially and cosmetics surgery became the fastest-growing medical specialty” (Wolf, p.180). The correlation is undeniable.
In the end of her excerpt Wolf makes a statement that has stuck with me since I read this piece several days ago. Wolf discusses how the beauty myth is not something that we can get rid of through lobbying, boycotting or using ballots and votes to overthrow. It is deeply engrained in our society and half the time something we are only subconsciously aware of. Wolf states that in order to overcome the beauty myth we must find “a new way to see” (Wolf, p.187). Everyone has insecurities about the way they look, and if they say they do not they are lying. Society and marketing offer quick fixes that to some are undeniable. We cannot abolish advertisements or make beauty pageants, make up and plastic surgery illegal in order to overcome the beauty myth. Knowing that is exists is the first step, but overcoming the beauty myth will take an internal strength that all women will have to dig deep to find.








